10 Myths of Presentation and Public Speaking By Alison Kemp

 

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  1. I’m better off winging it – The problem with improvisation is that it’s terribly haphazard! You’ll need some landmarks to stop you going off track. A mind map can help to plan points without scripting.
  2. I need to write out my full speech before I speak – Do you? What a hassle! A script can take longer to write than notes and is much more difficult to edit. Even more importantly, we don’t speak as we write: the language may be different and sentences are usually shorter.
  3. … and then memorise it – Hence the cause of crippling nerves and blanking out! Make life easy on yourself: remember where you’re going and where you’ve been and you’ll find it easier to know where you are now without having to memorise anything. Continue reading 10 Myths of Presentation and Public Speaking By Alison Kemp

The Seven Deadly Sins of Public Speaking

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Whenever you speak in public, you want to make a good impression, communicate your message effectively, and make the best use of everyone’s time. While I often talk about the dos, here are a few of the don’ts to remember when giving your speech. Commit these deadly sins at your own risk when you speak in public.

Sin #1: Lack of preparation 

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Why Introverts Make Great Public Speakers

If you were to list out the characteristics that most of us believe that a really good speaker must have in order to communicate the importance of public speaking, what would be on your list? I can only speak for myself, but I believe that I would have on my list that they would need to be an extrovert – an outgoing person who is always giving off lots of energy. You need this in order to connect with your audience, right? I’d be wrong. It turns out that introverts, those people who are more inwardly focused and less outwardly focused, can make really great speakers. Let’s find out why…

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Learn How To Be Funny By MandyLane

Now this may sound silly to some people, but you can actually learn how to be funny. Like any desirable trait, with a bit of practice you can achieve what you want. One thing you will notice is that people with a good sense of humour tend to be more social. It makes sense really, if somebody makes you laugh, your going to want to laugh more. If your at a party, their is always that person who is the life and sole of the night, most of the time it’s because their funny.
Like any desirable trait, you can’t just learn it overnight, it’s going to take practice. Even if your extremely boring, if you want it enough you can become that funny person everybody loves. The secret is really simple, practice makes perfect. When your out and about with your mates, say a funny joke, it doesn’t matter if it’s not funny. Your trying to build up a barrier, so that no matter what reaction you get, you wont be fazed by it. The truth is, everybody has that funny side to them, but most people are scared of the reaction.
If you hear or see something on the television that’s funny, express it in a way so you feel comfortable. The worst thing is telling a joke/story when you feel uncomfortable, people can see right through this. It may sound like a hard task at first, but you learn to relax over time. Anything can be achieved if you really put your mind to it.
As I said earlier, people love to hang out with a funny person. It literally changes your social life.. I know this might sound fake and ‘pretending to be sombody else’ but it’s about finding that natural funny side of you. The more you practice, the quicker it will come. Just keep making jokes everyday, say things which you find funny. You don’t have to be scared to say what’s on your mind, just say it. It doesn’t matter if people don’t like what you have to say, remember your building a wall.
I know that some people may think this is impossible, and that every funny person out there is ‘naturally funny’ but I promise you it’s not the case. Think about stand up comedians, they practice on their craft every day, it is possible. My personal reason for writing this article was because I used to suffer from social anxiety.
It’s a fairly common problem, especially in teenagers nowadays. It basically means feeling uncomfortable around other people, occasional panic attacks. I wanted to overcome it and I tried my hardest become better socially. Being funny is the key because it helps every single aspect. If you feel uncomfortable you can just crack up a joke which really helps with your confidence

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Want to Be Better at Public Speaking? Stop Trying to be Perfect! by changethats

Do you want to be better at speaking in front of an audience? Here’s a simple tip: stop trying to be perfect! That’s the advice of public speaking expert Seymour Segnit.

Segnit, a well-known life coach who helps people overcome their fear of public speaking, says that many people inadvertently sabotage their speeches by setting too high a standard for themselves. In the process, they set themselves up for failure. I’m not saying you shouldn’t try to be at your best, Segnit says, But don’t obsess about it.

He is concerned about the cycle of negative thought that develops for people preparing to give a speech. As it is, most people are deeply afraid of speaking in front of a crowd, he says. If they expect their speech to be flawless, they are likely to experience panic when they make some minor gaffe. Of course you’re going to make a mistake! Segnit says, You aren’t perfect! No one is.
Some of the best public speakers of our generation – including Tony Robins and Barak Obama – make speaking mistakes and trip over their words. But they don’t get flustered by these minor gaffes. They simply move on, or they brush it off with a little humor.

Advice? Just be as good as you can and enjoy the ride!

Segnit, whose company CTRN helps people overcome the fear of public speaking, has created a series of video lessons on dealing with speaking anxiety.
“There are lots of great resources out there about public speaking,” he says, “But very few of them deal with the psychological aspects of giving a speech, and that’s what most people are really struggling with.” Among his lessons, he encourages people to visualize a success scenario for the day of their speech.

“Most people dread giving a talk,” he says, “So they wake up in the morning thinking, Oh no! I have to give my speech today. I just know it’s going to go badly.”
But it doesn’t have to be that way. Instead of envisioning a bad result, why not envision a successful speech that you feel great about?
“Why not?” asks Segnit. “The dread you feel is just a made up result for something that hasn’t happened yet. Why not make up a good result instead?”

He encourages people to imagine their entire day up to the point where they finish their speech. “Imagine waking up and looking forward to your speech. Imagine it in detail, and imagine it as if you were experiencing it through your own eyes,” he says, “That’s very important.”
But doesn’t a success scenario mean you are trying to give a perfect speech? Segnit sees no contradiction.
“Successful speeches aren’t perfect, and neither are successful speakers,” he says. “But successful speakers don’t undermine themselves with negativity.”

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